A Healthy Relationship IS:

One in which you don’t worry about whether he is going to call…you know he will

You don’t feel that anxiety and worry about the relationship

You don’t feel like spying on the other person

You take is slow because you know you have something wonderful happening

You don’t push or pressure

You have a connection…perhaps chemistry, but so much more

You can open up to this person without feeling judged

You communicate well with each other and can talk for hours

He doesn’t wait to call at the last minute to ask you out

She doesn’t get upset over little things that don’t matter because you know you will work it out

YOU CAN BE YOURSELF

You can comfortably tell each other your dreams

You like the other person and admire who they are

YOU HAVE A GREAT FRIENDSHIP AND BECOME BEST FRIENDS (this is huge)

You don’t second guess if you can depend on the other person because you know you can

You sincerely like spending time with them….perhaps more than anyone else

You don’t ask your friends what they think because you already KNOW how you feel

You share what is meaningful to you with her/him, including family

You don’t ridicule each other

You have similar values

You can see this person in your future

You don’t have doubts

You don’t try to change the other person

You have genuine concern for their well being

You have a similar vision of the future, especially the important things

You do not want to live your life without sharing it with her/him

And, yes, you LOVE him/her (I can’t imagine a long term, close relationship without love)